get to know someone new

hello, when I'm trying to get to know someone new, I don't believe anything they say. my inner voice immediately judges and I believe that they are a bad person. when I don't want to listen to my inner voice and continue to meet, when I realize that I will feel something emotional, I tell the other party that I don't want to talk and I break the communication. what could be the reason for this, what should we do?

A number of events may have happened to you that you should not trust people, and you may be having difficulty trusting again. However, since we do not have an opinion about someone we have just met, it is up to us to choose whether to trust or not. You can work in sessions about why you don't trust people.